Friday, April 24, 2009

Love is a sacred heavenly feeling of heart for mainly the creator, people close to him/her, ordinary people and so on. The next question that raises in our minds is why LOVE and whether it exists or not. Love does exist and it doesn’t exist from a few years, decades or centuries back. She was born with the human creation and was situated in the hearts of people in hoards. Thus, we can proudly say that one reason why human beings are called the-best-of-creatures is because of this feeling.

When we hear the word love, the conjunction of opposite sex feelings and emotions automatically occurs to our minds mostly. However, we are mistaken, in principle. When the Almighty God wanted to create the human beings, he himself gave soul to us with love because he wanted us to live a life where love would prevail and we would make this world the safest haven through love.
LOVE has many sacred and acceptable features like loving the creator, his prophets who were unquestionably soulful sculptures of love, then our religion, our parents, mentors, family members and then opposite sex.

Love to all the ones I mentioned before differs from loving the opposite sex (dream girl/dream boy) in a sense that your love might reach the completion stage when you love the creator, Quran, parents and so on. How does that happen? When we love them, we have a responsibility to fulfill and that is abiding by the rules they have set and get their consensus.
However, love to opposite sex has a different aspect. It is a beautiful and a rewarding feeling. When you are really in love (you never fall in love. This term is out-and-out wrong), you tend to transform from an ordinary human being to someone really special and probably become a close member to the Almighty.

Love is the creation of the Almighty and if someone doesn’t love the Almighty, how can he/she love his creature and be loyal to him/her? It doesn’t happen by only saying, “I love so and so …” It has rules. In real love, the light of the Almighty’s existence shines. In real love, with opposite sex, people say that the two beloved bodies’ love one another, but in reality they follow the light of the Almighty’s existence.

 Now, can light be touched (physical interaction with opposite sex)?

 Can light be saved (getting married)? Can’t save life per se

 Can the light remain in the eyes (loyalty)?

 The answer to the first two questions is NO and YES is the answer for the third one.

 The love games we see nowadays aren’t love in reality; they are merely infatuations or sexual attraction

 Why Laila & Majnoon, Shereen & Farhad and many lovebirds as such couldn’t meet in this world?

 Because they are going to meet in the eternal world as they have passed their probationary period (this world).

 It is said that the coffin of love is taken to the graveyard and buried at the time when two so-called lovers get married. Is that right?

People separately analyze love and they say:

L stands for LAND OF SORROW, but I say it is LAND OF HOPES

O stands for OCEAN OF TEARS, but I say it is OCEAN OF FEELINGS & EMOTIONS

V stands for VALLEY OF DEATH, but I say it is VALLEY OF BREATHTAKING ADVENTURES

E stands for END OF LIFE, but I say it is the END OF MEANINGLESS LIFE and a TURN
OVER TO A CHAPTER OF MEANINGFUL LIFE

After saying all these, I don’t feel the need to talk about love with the same sex.

• So, love does exist and its existence has the same history as the human beings’ creation does

• Love has different and acceptable forms like loving the Almighty, mentors and someone from the opposite sex. However, love has responsibilities when it comes to Almighty and others, but when it comes to opposite sex, love is the first and last thing. In terms of talking about love with opposite sex, we can say that is a nicely awful experience in words and life in real terms

• Love is a sacred feeling. In real love dictionary, words associated with sexual desires are out of place. Real Love means CONJUNCTIVE SEPARATION


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